What is the most important quality you look for in another person ?

It is usually friendliness , a degree of openness , that draws us to another person . However , what I look for in somebody else is honesty .This is the quality which makes that person credible .

There are some individuals who have so great a need to be accepted that they just tell you what they think you need them to say or do just so that you'd accept them .this doesn't make them bad people . they're just as lovable as anyone else but they're lacking in self confidence .

Once they feel that they're accepted  , they will open up slowly and start to feel the relief at being able to be themselves , at the same time lose some of the guilt they were carrying by presenting untruths .It is important not to judge each other as this can be detected and influence people to be dishonest .