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Bullying in the workplace

My name is Ursula February. Today I would like to address the issue of  bullying in the workplace. Some may ask what is she talking about, there is no such thing. We only know about bullying in schools. We'll peeps surprise, surprise.. Bullying is a reality not only in schools but also in the workplace. I've learned that their is great awareness and campaigns around the issue of bullying in schools, but not so much about bullying in the workplace. Most people are sacred to talk or  speak up about it in the workplace for fear of various reasons; eg: loosing their jobs. I've noticed that when young people enter the job market they are being bullied by those who's been with the company for years and some maybe just a year or two, but because they part of a very negative group they enjoy making the lives of the newly employed as unpleasant as possible. When young people excels..in most cases jealousy creeps in the workers thats been with the company for quite awh
Cabin crew for airlines Hello everyone ... my name is Aisha ..I always had a dream of becoming an air hostess At the airport when my mom left for hajj many years ago , I was 16 years old. I was mesmerized by the cabin crew when they stepped off from their flight, dressed so chic. Dressed to perfection, straightened arms pill box slightly tilted an a certain air about them , I knew right away that was exactly what i wanted to become to earn a living ... travel the work and get paid. I also knew i would excel at delivering the perfect safety demonstration .. that was my dream. but unfortunately it did not materialize . Fortunately my baby daughter realized my dream an is living the good life travelling the world an we always sharing stories of her travels. Thank you yours sincerely Mrs A. Harmon
Hi i am Verna,widower of ten years now.I have two beautiful talented daughters ages 21 and 12.           All single moms deserve a HIGH FIVE. At the age of 48 i have found a fulfilling job which i thought was impossible.Always say 'through Him all things are possible.I am in the beauty trade and have the most amazing experience daily at my workplace.We all have our off days n our trials we go through daily but if i just lend an ear now and then to a customer or even a work colleague  it makes my day.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Women are really strong people and are rarely afraid to express themselves.What makes my day is when a lady comes into my shop all down and leaves there confident and happy.My pastime i am at RLabs cos i am confident i can do anything i put my mind to.Opening my o

Story's of hope

This is how my journey of hope began my story start out at work with my collage impact my live true not being able to achieve  at my work were i wanted to be if there was a post on they will always ask you do you have grade 12 i will respond no well i had to move out of their space i did This is when one of my friends told me about rlabs and i joined this lovely family i took my first computer class and a post at work were available i got the post and it was here were the young people help me growing in my space with them encouraging me that i can do it with their love and support being patient with me were your own kids dint have the patients to help you i found comfort and hope here i believe God place these angels of hope on my  part i have grown a lot with this family thanks a lot you made a big change in my live young people can learn us a lot parents lets give them a change you know my journey wont stop here until i also made a change in somebody's live thank y
Hollow every one hope all is well. I am abasia i have 4 children 4 grandchildren.  I live in athlone grew up in Woodstock.  I went to work the clothing trade at the age of 16.  Today i am a dress designer.  Which i love doing.  I also teaching. Feel free to come to class and learn a few new things and start making your own clothing

The benefits of exercise

Hi to everyone out there. My name is Amina and I'm from South Africa. I love keeping fit on a weekly basis.   Walking is good as it keep me fit and healthy. Its good for the bones and help keep us flexible. Help us relax, clear our mind and relieves stress. When walking we do not spend any money as its free. We get lots of fresh air, meet people and get new perspective on life. And you will feel amazing after your walk. Walking is a very good exercise to keep fit. I would encourage people to go outside and get walking. My goal is to be fit and do a 5-10 race. So lets get out,get fresh air and keep wking.
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I had a dream to become an air hostess. Being the age i am now i will never fulfill this dream. I remember being in grade 10 (standard 8) and my guidance teacher applied for me to become a hostess. Unfortunately with failing the grade my mother said i must leave school and go work. My mother asked my brother to get me a job where he was working at that time, which he did. I was very disappointing then i decided to stay positive and set a goal for myself and go for it. I did just that and started venturing into the sales world then into counselling etc. I started doing some courses eg: home base, counselling and communication, domestic violence, pharmacy assistant, PASCAP, ECD, Office Management, First Aid, Project Management, Introduction to Computers, WOW {Western Cape on Wellness},{ Occupational Health and Safety, Small Business Management, and presently doing Geeky Moms } with RLABS. Also planing to do more courses. My vision now is to open a daycare center for older person
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My name is Abongile Dikeni and i am 22 years old.i am a mother of a 4 year old boy and i am  single mom i'm a very lucky mom i love my son so much he means a world to me  when i was 17 years old i fell pregnant  and i was in grade 12 was about to write my finals in 2015 when i found out i was really scared i didn't know what to do i was terrified scared and my fear was my parents especially my father oh that man had dreams he used  to remind me all the time that if i ever fall pregnant he would disown me that he would kill me with his bare hands he wanted me to make them proud he wanted so much from me nd he believed in me so much he wanted me to study finish school get married than have kids like any father but unfortunately things didn't go as planned so he  suggested that i should drop out of school he gave up on me he did as he promised he disowned me but lucky enough i had a an  amazing mother she never gave up on me she was with me all the way up until i gave birth
Life is not that easy, it has got its ups and downs and it need you and you alone to take control of it. I would like tell a story of the journey to where I am now. I am a married woman and I have four children. I am coming from East London and I moved to Cape Town in 1998. My husband was already here so I was coming to live with him. At first I was not here to stay I was visiting, but many things happened while we were here with my two kids that time. the circumstances force me to stay. My husband was not happy with my decisions and that was when I saw his true colours. He used to go and live us alone with the kids and come back the following day and when I asked him where he was he would beat me up and shout at me. At that time I was unemployed. One day one of our neighbours introduced me to a small business as street vendor.
Growing up in a very conservative home,her dad being a polygymist ten year old chupa chehra lived a very difficult and confused life.Remembering the beatings,sjambok used on mother and siblings.remembering locked doors and the cries,because of her father having two wives her mothers attention was diverted away from her kids because her mom focused more on not losing the man she loves.This made chupa chehra sad.Chupa chehra could not voice what she felt.They werent allowed to have friends it was her fathers way of protecting his kids.Chupa chehra rebelled at the age of thirteen,summer nights they would sneak outside to play with friends.They would watch out if dads car pulls in the drive way and sneak back indoors.Chupa chehra then decided to bunk school one day and did that turn out bad.She expected the sjambok,instead she got a suprise with the cord of the kettle and with that came the end of her school days.Chupa chehra regretted her mistake and pleaded with the family to send her ba
Hi, firstly i would like to introduce myself. My name is Faheema Abrahams, I am a mother of four adult sons, divorced four years ago at age of fifty, after being married for thirty years and living a life of comfort. I would love to share my challenges with women that is going similar trials, with no experience of life outside my home, finding my way back into in the workplace or overcoming being ostracized  by family for my decision to divorce. My reason for divorce was that for the last ten years of my married life I was just breathing, no sense of purpose, no reason for getting out of bed. My kids were all adults and they did'n need me that much anymore. I wasn't allowed to work nor do any self improvement studies. Only thing i  was allowed to do was religious studies. The earth shattering event that changed the course of my life was seeing my son having a nervous breakdown, medically its called a pchycotic episode. My best friend, my confidant, the perfect child, the lov
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Good day my name is Kashiefa age 34.  having my own children made me c what a mothers gob is really about.  getting married was exiting..  being married  was very hard for me i tough that the abuse was never going to end.then i started with self love. meaning loving my self and standing up for myself.  getting divorce was the best thing that could have happened to me braking the chain off abuse. i really experience life like i never did before. but after all this I'm still standing strong. i always encourage my children no matter what u go true in like just makes u stronger .no matter what happens in life let it go. although its not always easy. and it doesn't matter were u come from, what  matter  is that, is were u heading  and were u going . it is also very sad to c how children and babies getting killed and how our future generation is killing themselves in gangsterism.. so what i realized is that example stars with me as a mother if I'm not gonna pray for them and b

Then And Now

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Hi.This is Desiree Janeke here. A very enlightened person than i was a lot of years ago. I have discovered that i am a very angry and hurt and confused person,and because i knew deep in my heart that that is not what GOD`S intention and plan is for me(at least not according to the BIBLE)I went on this very personal journey of discovery.I have been to numerous courses looking for answers. I just knew i must be Happy.And i anted to be Happy. My whole being was yearning for it. I asked GOD to grant me the wisdom and understanding. Here goes, from the bits and pieces i gathered so far. It is all about LOVE!!!! LOVE is when we want the best for each and every pers irrespective of creed or colour or race.Living heaven here on earth and helping that person get to heaven in the next life.Accepting each other for who and what we are because we cannot change the other person because GOD created us all in a unique way. COMMUNICATE about the things that make us tick. We need to be able