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Growing up in a very conservative home,her dad being a polygymist ten year old chupa chehra lived a very difficult and confused life.Remembering the beatings,sjambok used on mother and siblings.remembering locked doors and the cries,because of her father having two wives her mothers attention was diverted away from her kids because her mom focused more on not losing the man she loves.This made chupa chehra sad.Chupa chehra could not voice what she felt.They werent allowed to have friends it was her fathers way of protecting his kids.Chupa chehra rebelled at the age of thirteen,summer nights they would sneak outside to play with friends.They would watch out if dads car pulls in the drive way and sneak back indoors.Chupa chehra then decided to bunk school one day and did that turn out bad.She expected the sjambok,instead she got a suprise with the cord of the kettle and with that came the end of her school days.Chupa chehra regretted her mistake and pleaded with the family to send her back to school but their minds was already made up.She would sit on the stoop of the front house and watch her friends go off to school with the hope that she will attend school soon.Chup chehra lived with that regret just hoping and wishing for the family to get her back into school,she saw her friends matriculate while she was still home doing her duties,cooking,cleaning and taking care of her younger siblings,her life now became being a mother to her siblings while both mothers helped her dad in the family business,at the age of seventeen chupa chehra got a marriage proposal,she thought that this would be her ticket to freedom.The family thought he was the ideal guy,and like every teenager living in a fantasy world chupa chehra thought it was a dream come true,her fiance was a multimillionare ,house in Bantry Bay,huge flat in Sea Point business in Regent Road,chupa chehra was smitten and then came the bad news that the guy shes about to marry was a conman all over crime stop.Chupa chehra dreams all died and couldnt understand,well atleast her family did something by saving her from the dreadful life she wouldve had,it wouldve costed chupa chehra her life in prison after finding out the guy was going to use her to smuggle ammunition and diamonds from Nimibia and Zmbabwe to South Africa.A before her wedding all arrangements was off.Three years later she received another marriage proposal which she accepted because all she wanted was freedom.All she wanted was to express herself and be her own person.She married in a very staunch Indian family,she had to adjust to their cultures,traditions and even their language.The start of her new life was awesome until a few months she then realized she will never be good enough for them or their son,no matter how hard she tried to please everyone.A few years later something great happened to chupa chehra,she started a four year course islamic course which she completed with many hardships.This was a break through for her.This empowered her it was a break through for her.This gave her the strength to stand through her divorce after a long tireless marriage relationship.The divorce took a hard knock on her as well as her three beautiful kids.After being home for almost two years a family member introduced Rlabs to her